Getting rid of things when your loved one passes away…Learn to live with what you need and not with what you think you might need…
Getting rid of stuff after someone is gone is hard work… Albert Einstein: “Out of clutter, find simplicity. From discord, find harmony. In the middle of difficulty, lies opportunity.” After my mother-in-law passed away, our family got together to get rid of things that she had accrued over her lifetime and her husband’s lifetime. Even though they had lived in a small one bedroom apartment, we couldn’t believe how much we needed to get rid of. Besides the large furniture, there were the usual suspects: kitchen stuff, photos, memorabilia, clothes, and left over food items. They had two refrigerators, the second of which sat in the living room, which was always an eyesore. It needed all of our efforts to discard, or reuse still good food items like beans, rice, and various condiments. During this process, I wondered, “ Why do we have such a hard time getting rid of things?” I think anyone who grew up poor has a tendency to want things, then keep them forever. I was the same wa